A wild ride down memory lane Here’s a thing I do sometimes: I sift through my memories and try to find unlikely connections that led to something totally unexpected. Maybe it’s the series of events that took me across the country from a tiny eastern town where I’d skip rocks in the Great Lakes as […]
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Staring at a wall changed my life “Do you have a wall to stare at?” he asked. “Yes,” I replied. This conversation snippet took place after I had just met a teacher who was giving a lecture on life, purpose, and all that good stuff. I had asked if he had any tips on dealing
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The hardest thing… A hard thing I witnessed as a counselor was clients beating themselves up for everything. Whether losing their temper with family, relapsing because of anxiety, or forgetting their medication, there was a natural urge to be self-critical. We can all probably relate on some level – no matter our path. But one
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As the (steering) wheel turns A young child sits in the back seat of a car, holding a frisbee. He pretends it’s a steering wheel. He turns it left. He turns it right. Every once in a while, his turn of the wheel coincides with the driver’s turn of the wheel, and voila! The illusion
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A test of patience A while back, I had a question for a state agency. I kinda knew the answer already, but I wanted to be sure. After navigating menu after menu of voice prompts, I was put in the dreaded queue. The digital voice announced, “You are currently 45th in line.” I decided to hang
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Breathing saved the day for me The year was 2004, and I was sitting on some really dirty steps behind a building at ASU. I wasn’t reviewing notes or having a snack. I was having a panic attack. Right before I had to teach. In that moment, I did the only thing I could do –
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Starting new doesn’t mean starting over. Here are 3 steps to setting and achieving a new life goal.
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My wife and I recently booked a trip with our kiddo – our first real trip in about six years. Just a few days. Really close to home. Not that big of a deal, right? We knew we wanted to go – needed to go – but something always stopped us. But not that day.
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“I can’t meditate because my mind just wanders.” “Mindfulness doesn’t work for me! I can’t stop thinking about stuff and I get distracted!” As a former counselor and current coach, author, and speaker on mindfulness, I’ve heard so many reasons why people give up on mindfulness and meditation. Fortunately, the most common thing people believe
Mindfulness is a lot like golf. It’s simple in theory, but complex in practice. Consider this: Golf is about hitting a ball with a club into a hole. Easy, right? Well, I can tell you as someone who spent many years trying to do that, it’s anything but easy. Mindfulness means purposely focusing your attention
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